PROBLEMS DEFINE ME

If life is all smooth and fine then I don't feel that We would wake up to a life with purpose. I'm a born fighter.  Struggles are given to people who can fight. Through these fight we learn and shape us. We transform into our better self. But not everyday you get up with that Josh to fight off your daily life struggles and problems. Sometimes you are left wounded in pain. Being through all these fights you get medals for sure but you also get a bonus of permanent life incidences and pain in the form of losing people, losing a track of who you are, self-hatred and many more. Most of us try to live with the pain, We fool ourself saying that Time heals all the wounds we inflicted upon ourself. According to me wound healing is of three stages:

(Don't worry I'm not going to talk about the medical stuff) 

1. You try living in the past.

You never allow the wound to heal and you wish to suffer in pain. 

2. You take others help to heal. 

But then and there you flicker between the past and the present. The pain is much more worse while you revisit your past trauma inside your mind. 

3. Self-Healing. 

Now this requires skill. You start to transform your pain and trauma into motivation. 

Humans achieve their biggest dreams or goals when they transform their negative and positive energy into motivation. When life knocks you down, You start proving that you are capable of much more. You expand your limits and become limitless. 

Problems teaches you to strive. 

You strive to survive. 

Then you fight and survive to reach your destiny. 

So without problems there are no survival instincts.

There is difference between living your life and just staying alive.

Live your Life by letting your problems define who You really are!

Joshika Joseph.