Confessions of a life freak

. We always walk into the court room. Accused for something we did or for people perception of thinking something we did. Have you ever been Judged? Hell..! YES . ( I'm not taking NO as an answer ) Everyone at some point have been judged by someone in their life. Starting from your Parents, Relatives, Friends, colleagues, people who know you and People who know Nothing about you. Judging doesn't always have to be others perspective towards you sometimes we even judge ourself which really is toxic to your mental health. Why do we judge? Judgement is an opinion or decision based on thoughts, feelings and evidence. But it becomes a problem when we make unnecessary, hurtful or unfair judgements. Science studies says people judge your character within 0.1 second. That is a very small amount of time to conclude years of someone's life. We judge because, 1. We think we are perfect. 2. Brings up a good gossip session. 3. Probably they judge themselves harshly. 4. We cannot take NO ...

  If communication can solve issues.   Why is anything not solved between two individuals who are kith and kin?  The opposite party says they ready to understand how we feel, So “open up”.  But when we really open up about our true feelings are we really heard? Are we really understood?  Maybe that is not the case right!  I have my own philosophy towards this one- A Human can never be understood by another human. No matter how hard they try, they are still bound to fail.  The person who tries to communicate needs nothing more than the other person to just listen! Because we know nobody can solve our problems for us. We need a pair of ears where are words can settle in. After listening without any judgement towards the person or situation just say “It’s okay”. And maybe just bury what we spoke deep inside your heart, pretending like it never happened. But not many are trustworthy in this universe that is why we build walls, even though we try to reveal ...

I'm off somewhere riding, With tears not denying. Lost by the city noise, Ignoring My inner voice. Lately she is doomed, Lost under the full moon. Tears roll down - Insecurity they say, Second chances given to all, meant no way. Try to mend yourself Not an easy job screams and shout in my head are heard from afar Suddenly Peace inside as whispering sound, When water tried to touch the ground, Feet in water, whispering wind, My soul soaked into a mesmerising tint. Light i feel nothing's changed, Why I do not always feel the same. Life of a warrior not so easy, I'm always meant to be crazy!  Joshika Joseph  

Have the world ever been unjust to you? Have you been blamed for doing something in your life that you cannot even think about! Have a crowd made you feel that you are unworthy or disloyal? I know how it feels! You become outrageous and frustrated. Especially when you are not given a chance to speak up for yourself. And if you ask them time to prove you were not at fault, They laugh. Now we start feeling insulted even though you did not do anything wrong. Sometimes you get to prove yourself right but does everything become okay after that phrase " Hence proved"? NO . It will never be okay. Once it is done it can never be undone. You remain hurt and feel extremely mad on those people who treated you like a creep. We even forget to breathe because of the frustration and the crowd of people. They start to suffocate you. In life there will be people like this all the time around us. Especially when you are good, you tend have this kind of situations more. Cry tho...

Mother's care Into the kitchen for boost, always beware. Sensitive and strong all in one Because of her I'm No.1 Fairy and angels identity of goodness You have always been My goddess. We fight and cry But the Love between us never fly. Love you, love you not games we play She never forgets to encourage us with a hip hip hurray. For all the lullabies you sang Miss those wake up coffee on my hand. Working women or house wife you be Both are hard because being a mother is a huge responsibility.  Mothers are inspiring with each a story to tell She is always irreplaceable❤ Being a mother is joy and way more tough responsibility. Because whenever a child is wrong a mother is always blamed for mishandling the kid. Most of the time they even forget to take credit for all the things they have done. She never asks why my name did not make it as a surname to my kids. She multi tasks with joy and never complains. If we are sick she reacts as if her life i...

I'm 23 now! Crazy isn't it! Time travels really fast. Suddenly one day I thought why not to visit a 10 year old me. I saw her standing quiet in the school corridor, went upto her and introduced myself saying "I'm the older version of you". I could see how amazed she was. We gradually started speaking and I noticed how much curious I was as a kid. As I shared few interesting and important decisions and moments with her. We both asked each other a question. What is that one advice you want to give me?  23 year old self replied : Don't worry about where life is taking you, just enjoy the ride. Destiny is one thing but it's the journey that makes life beautiful and worth living. 10 year old self replied: No matter what people speak about you, Never change yourself. Don't forget who you really are on the way of your journey. Tears rolled down my eyes while I could visualize this whole scenario. It's a sense of relief that you could feel....